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April 13 ThinGs are GreaT with MY new MaN !!!Hi all.....
Hope you are well.
I am fine and things are GreaT with my new man ! I believe this is a God sent man too me ! And too think I have known him all my life ! My best friends brother !
May God continue too Bless Frank and I in our relationship ! AMEN !!!
I had sooo...many bad relationships it ain'T fuNny ! It was not from (me) lack of trYinG too make them work ! I thinK that was what was wronG though ! I trieD hard and they did not. They doing things behind my back, especially CheaT !!! But yet I took there I AM SORrIES and went on trying too make the relationship work ! I HAvE a too forgiving nature sometiMes !!! Even when I had been abused physically I tried to fix things too make the relationship work ! I never wanted people too thinK it was my fault it did noT work I guess ! DUMB dumb DumB !!!! They JusT abuse you worse ,LeT me tell You !!!!! You doNe showed them theY can get away with it, So theY will dO iT aGain !!!!And if you have children they can harm you kids too !!! Thats what made me see to get out of one one of my relationships ! He started mentally abusing my kids ! I hope that is all he done !!! I was packed and out of there !!!!!!!!!!!!
If your in a abusive relationship, GEt ouT of iT !!! Before they can Hurt you woRse, And espeCially beFore they can KILL You !!!! They neVer will claim it being there fault! They always blame you !!!
Wait on that special mate to come alonG by GOD's hands ! When I had been hurt too much, and gave up on a good mate being out there. With out me watching for him too come along ! HERE....came one ! Thank God for Frank !!! I did not now a man can be so kind !!! Not jusT too me either ! He has been kinD too me, my kids, His kids, His family ,My family. He's Awesome !!! Just like MY gOD is AWESOME !!!!!!
Well all else is been busy... thatS LiFE............ But its better than being indoors and wondering on too much of .....WhaT IF's.........
God says do not worry about tomorrows !!!
Well ya'LL haVe a GreaT DaY !!!!!!
GOD BLESS YA !!!!!!!!!!!!
AMEN !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
UPDATE :
Frank and I did not last long at all... Here I was staying with him most the time at his place. He started disapearing till late . Even afterwork ! And little while later...HE started disappearing days! I asked did he want me to leave..No answer so I started packing ! Then he grabbed me and said No, he did not want me to go !
So I stayed !
A few weeks later things got worse instead of better ! I left for good !
Here about april 2008' I ran into his kids and they told me he was marrying... He got a girl pregnant ! I told them I Learned six months ago, that while Frank had me living in his house ! He was shacking up with a woman, when at her home! When he was not with me ! YEp guessed IT !? She got pregnant ! And I found out through my daughter in-laws family. Whom had been chatting with this other woman at a convenience store nearby. They happen to mention the story sounded like My story ! And mentioned who was her boyfriend/ex ?? So she told them ! And they told I was the women he cheated on with her ! Well Frank turned around and asked her to marry him..The right move I think ! All babies should be brought into the world with mommy and daddy married.
So Frank is gone and Gladly !!! I still see his kids now and then ! Hate I lost a friend I had so long... But I forgave... Just have to get used to if I run into him at his sisters / My friend-sis and be comfortable with the situation !
So not to lose sis ! She married my cousin...
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